Therapy for Therapists: Why the People Who Listen All Day Need Somewhere to Put It
I've sat on both sides of this. I've held a full caseload through weeks where my own life was coming apart quietly in the background, and I've been the clinician…
I've sat on both sides of this. I've held a full caseload through weeks where my own life was coming apart quietly in the background, and I've been the clinician…
Most of the people I meet who are living with high-functioning burnout are not falling apart in any way a colleague would notice. They're running departments, seeing patients back to…
You're the person everyone describes as so easy to get along with. You almost never say no. You smooth things over before they become conflicts. You anticipate what other people…
You don't fight because you don't love each other. You fight because you do. There's something particular about the arguments that happen in close relationships, the ones that feel like…
If you have been thinking about therapy for a while but have not made the call yet, there is a good chance that not knowing what to expect is part…
There is a kind of exhaustion that sleep does not fix. You go to bed tired. You wake up tired. You push through the day on willpower and the knowledge…
You have left, or you are in the process of leaving, and on paper that should mean something has shifted. You have done the research, you can name what happened,…
The Moment You Realize You Are Not Crazy You have probably told yourself a hundred different stories about why you stay. Most of them have something to do with love,…
How Attachment Styles Show Up in Adult Relationships There is a specific kind of loneliness that doesn’t make sense on paper.You’re not single. You’re not technically “alone.”There’s someone beside you…
Repeating Patterns in Relationships: Why Knowing Isn't Enough You tell yourself this time will be different. Different person, different circumstances, possibly a different version of you. And for a while…